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Monday, July 19, 2010

Duplicity and Infidelity


I have a tarnished history.  I strayed in my 27-year marriage.  I'm not proud of it, but I can't deny what happened.  Hubby and I worked it out, and things have been great better for some time now.   Maybe some of you remember when the truth came out.  To refresh your memory, click here .   

Are you back?

I know; it was ugly, and sordid, and I'm ashamed of my weakness.  I have to confess, I had a little taste of a manage-a-trois, and it was not totally unpleasant.  I think what I didn't like, was my hubby being a part of it all.  I guess I wanted to believe he was above that sort of thing. 

As you know, I've been taking it easy for quite a while due to some on-going health problems.  (Ear infection, that over a period of weeks spread to become a sinus infection, bronchitis, and then pneumonia).  I'm not looking for sympathy...I just want to explain that resting and being very inactive may not have had a very positive effect on me.  You know what they say---"Idle hands are the devil's playthings."

Well, all that  "resting" has opened the door to more trouble.  Now there are TWO males flirting with me, teasing me, tempting me when Hubby is otherwise occupied--which during baseball season is frequently.  I'm trying to resist, really I am.  But their lure is so compelling, so decadently sinful, I fear I may soon be lost!

Maybe someone out there has been where I am; tempted and in danger of giving in....of letting go and giving myself totally.  Would it really be so wrong?   Just me, and Ben and Jerry's Peanut Butter Cup.............
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29 comments:

Kristina P. said...

What a harlot!!

The Vegetable Assassin said...

You evil infidel!

I cheated on my Mars Bar today with some deliciously cheeky little chocolate covered raspberry creams. I bought half a pound of them. Since this week, beginning Monday morning, has been declared a chocolate free week for me on behalf of my expanding keester, I felt I had to eat them all at once. I mean, it was the kind thing to do.

Kola Kokahalla said...

I have to confess that I cheat regularly on my boyfriend, with Junior Mints. They're just so saucy. I can't resist. What's a girl to do around such debauchery?

SamiJoe said...

Lol--cute!

Mary at Deep South Dish said...

In your defense, they are indeed delicious fellas! :)

Rachel Cotterill said...

You're just too funny! In this house, my husband is the one with the not-so-secret sugar addiction... :)

Brian Miller said...

i dont blame you eva, it was all ben & jerry...smiles. i know cherry garcia well...

natalee said...

LOL!!!! You are a bad girl!!!!! Heey Lady check ur email...

glnroz said...

I knew it,, whew!!,, lol

Margaret (Peggy or Peg too) said...

Well I can help you.
They are my boyfriends and you can't have them!

So back off.
These 2 are the only men I'd leave my husband for so find yourself another pair of tasty men!
:-)

Pat said...

Wow - your illness sounds an awful lot like mine! Three weeks into it and I'm still coughing, have hardly any voice etc!

Your love affair seems harmless to me! So your husband's competition is talk, dark, and handsome Mr. Goodbar! He can handle it!

Debbie said...

Gosh it's been a while since I have been in contact with my old friends Ben and Jerry! I have noticed they are offering new and enticing lures like cinnamon buns and creme brulee. While I am certainly tempted beyond belief some days, I am happy to say I have not cheated once in an entire year...although I cannot deny, I have been spending time with a German man named Riesen for quite some time...shhhh. Eva...once again you made me laugh out loud! You are too much!

Steven Anthony said...

give in my friend...I wont tell....lol

Writing Without Periods! said...

Chocolate has a lot to answer for, my dear...it's the evil side.
Ha!
Mary

Wanderlust said...

Eva, Eva, Eva... if you're going to give into Ben and Jerry at least go with the Oreo variety to you can be the sweet stuff in the middle!

Everyday Goddess said...

Ben and Jerry's, two real guys who have lured me astray many times. Many times.

Midday Escapades said...

Kristina has spoken my sentiment. Now, make sure you share with the rest of us!

Six Feet Under Blog said...

Ha ha. You had me there for a minute.

Jen said...

Someone else tempted by.....I can't go to Mars anymore, because , when I do it SHOWS, at places I had hoped it wouldn't. I've never admitted this but, there is also CADBURY......LOL

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Meeko Fabulous said...

Now I'm gonna have to stop for a sundae on the way home . . .

Eddie Bluelights said...

You had me worried for a minute! LOL

Hope you feel better soon, Eva.

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jules said...

Ha ha ha. I love the first post! Take care of yourself.

Joann Mannix said...

I hope you feel better, soon! I have had an ongoing affair with dark chocolate since before my marriage 23 years ago.

There is too much love between us to give it up. My hubs has come to understand and sometimes brings my lover home for me.

Eva Gallant said...

Jules: Glad you liked it!

Jen: That Cadbury...the name CAD says it all!

Steven: So glad you're willing to cover for me! lol

Glen: Hope I didn't give you any more gray hairs there! lol

Eva Gallant said...

Sami: Sorry...almost missed you! glad you liked it!

Katie said...

I always said I was a Yarnells Peach Cobbler or straight Vanilla fan...until those two men tickled my fancy with their "Chunky Monkey"...think what you may...that monkey had me at first glance.

Ratz said...

Oh!! Hallelujah!! I agree with you...... Nothing better than them.... You are just too funny... read your letters... i must say.... you are too good :-D